The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

[Tarrant220]

For sure, don't let anything she does suck you back in unless shes willing to do it on your terms and your terms alone, only you can be the judge of a situation like that.

You are on the right track though, keep it up, don't let her texts out of no where seeking attention from you spark a response, don't let information from mutual friends make its way to you and effect your decision making.

Currently my recent ex is still on my facebook and I can tell she's seeking attention from me, she saw Michele get added to my list and I "liked" a bunch of her pictures...so now recent ex is posting on my profile asking how I'm doing and commenting on my pictures and what not.

For me, I kept my recent ex on my facebook more so to remind me why I'm not with her anymore, not for feelings of regret. A small part of me maybe I suppose misses her, but after that much time it's expected I think, hell I miss my ex wife a bit at times even.

[Brad2770]

Get her off of there.

[Tarrant220]

Eh I'm fine with it, it could be considered a mistake I supposed if I wasn't 100% confident I could fall for something she might pull and I don't live on my facebook, fuck I'm still friends on there still with people I wouldn't mind seeing get hit by a bus at some point. I'll probably take her off at some point but for now she provides me with lol's

[Mcpickle Deluxe]

I was recently in DC for the summer and met this girl there.



She had broken up with her long term BF about 3 months prior and said everything was over with. We started dating ... things were going well, then i started seeing the signs that I know all too well.

He would text, she would text back. I'd ask her about it she'd say "oh its nothing we're not getting back together I hate him he cheated on me". We would go out, she would talk about serious issues like our future, possibly moving near to where I was, etc.

I moved back to Illinois and we were going to try the long distance thing. She flew out here, we went out, had a great time. One night at dinner she broke down about how she was so hurt b/c she really loved him and couldn't understand why things like this would happen. I could see at that point where this was heading, as he had started posting on her FB and she had started posting on his, so I just said "listen... if you're going to go back to him, just let me know, so I can get over it already. Just be honest with me". To which she adamantly denied ever going back to him and how I was the person for her.

She then flew back to DC. 3 days later he sleeps over. She says nothing happens. I get no calls for a week. I see his pics on FB outside her place. I call her up and flat up ask her if she slept with him, to which she became silent .. so I knew the answer was yes.

She then sent me some 8 paths of loving bull shit that says we should all love everyone, and that's why she did it. Then sends me her horoscope, which said she should try new things in her life. THEN when I ask her why she would talk about serious shit with me if she wasn't really that into me she says "Well, sometimes I just like to imagine things, and play out little scenarios in my head".

To which I reply "So.. you were fucking with my feelings? Fuck you.". I de-friended her, blocked her, erased her phone #, everything I can do to stay away from her. Then when she asked why I was doing these things, as she still wanted to be friends, I replied.

"Because you are fucking broken".

And hung up.

[Tarrant220]

FUCKING BRAVO SIR

+1 for you

[Lenaldo]

Originally Posted by Mcpickle Deluxe

"Because you are fucking broken".

And hung up.

Rofl.. awesome line..

[Shutup]

Sounds like my kind of woman!

[Eomer]

I texted Kate, the bar girl, a couple days ago again. Just asked if she was still up for a drink or bite and that I was finally feeling halfway decent (this cold has kicked my ass). She replied back the next day she was glad I was feeling better, and sorry that she never got back to me, that the past week had also kicked her ass haha. I texted her back, again the next day, saying that sounds like my past month and that hopefully this winter would be nice and quiet, and what's her schedule like? She replies back a couple hours later with another long text saying her school screwed up some pre-req's and she has to take a course this weekend. The last couple texts were last night.

She's not saying no, the texts are long and friendly, but she's not really making herself available either. As someone said, trying to do too much over texts can lead to fail, so I'll try one more phone call and that'll be it.

Oh and for the hell of it I sent Chuck a text letting her know that the ski trip we met on last year was happening again, and if she hadn't left for Australia yet she should grab some friends and come along. She said she's trying to save money but to forward her the emails and she might talk to the girl who organizes the trip and come. I'm more thinking along the lines of she brings a friend or two than anything, plus she actually is a pretty fun girl to party with. Regardless, that particular trip should be good times.

[arkk123]

Originally Posted by Eomer

I texted Kate, the bar girl, a couple days ago again. Just asked if she was still up for a drink or bite and that I was finally feeling halfway decent (this cold has kicked my ass). She replied back the next day she was glad I was feeling better, and sorry that she never got back to me, that the past week had also kicked her ass haha. I texted her back, again the next day, saying that sounds like my past month and that hopefully this winter would be nice and quiet, and what's her schedule like? She replies back a couple hours later with another long text saying her school screwed up some pre-req's and she has to take a course this weekend. The last couple texts were last night.

She's not saying no, the texts are long and friendly, but she's not really making herself available either. As someone said, trying to do too much over texts can lead to fail, so I'll try one more phone call and that'll be it.

Oh and for the hell of it I sent Chuck a text letting her know that the ski trip we met on last year was happening again, and if she hadn't left for Australia yet she should grab some friends and come along. She said she's trying to save money but to forward her the emails and she might talk to the girl who organizes the trip and come. I'm more thinking along the lines of she brings a friend or two than anything, plus she actually is a pretty fun girl to party with. Regardless, that particular trip should be good times.

She's been blowing you off for a month. And even if all of her excuses are real which they aren't, she can't really be too excited about hanging out if she can't make time.

Why can't you see this? Do you think blowing up her phone makes her want to hang out?

[Picasso]

Originally Posted by Eomer

the ski trip we met on last year was happening again,

can i come?

[Eomer]

Originally Posted by Picasso

can i come?

Bus is getting pretty full, and we don't need no more sausage.

She's been blowing you off for a month. And even if all of her excuses are real which they aren't, she can't really be too excited about hanging out if she can't make time.

Why can't you see this? Do you think blowing up her phone makes her want to hang out?

Umm, it's pretty obvious from my past couple quotes that I CAN see it, hence why I'm giving her one more call. I mean fuck, we've each called each other two or three times with only a couple of those connecting and we've exchanged maybe a dozen texts between us. How is that blowing up her phone (which she didn't even have for the first week)?

[Picasso]

man fuck you!

and you're not blowing up her phone, ark is a moron.

[Tenks]

Everyone in this thread seems to take facebook as the pinnacle of serious business. I don't think I've ever de-tagged/de-friended an ex girlfriend. On ocassion they'll do it to me but I mean ... it's fucking facebook.

[arkk123]

Originally Posted by Eomer

Umm, it's pretty obvious from my past couple quotes that I CAN see it, hence why I'm giving her one more call. I mean fuck, we've each called each other two or three times with only a couple of those connecting and we've exchanged maybe a dozen texts between us. How is that blowing up her phone (which she didn't even have for the first week)?

Because you try to arrange shit with girls you have never even kissed to a degree that is like you are trying to find the perfect situation to rape and murder them. It is creepy. I've never in my entire life gone to such great lengths to hang out with a female as you do. Texting, calling, texting, calling. For what?

Everyone said from the beginning that it would go no where and end badly, just like the last girl whom had a phone I guess you think you didn't blow up.

If a girl wants to hang out with you she will make time. She isn't interested. Right now this situation for her is at "Well if I really have nothing else to do I guess I'll hang out with him". Girls do that with dudes all the time for self-esteem issues and quite simply boredom. When girls are interested they'll blow off class, stay out late, etc.

You are the dude who walks in on his wife getting tag teamed by 2 black dudes and gives her "one more chance". It has been said over and over and over. You come off desperate and make yourself overly and annoyingly available. When you do this you fall into the category of millions of other guys who do this. You are in bad company in a girls mind at the moment.

This is dead in the water.

[Tarrant220]

Originally Posted by Tenks

Everyone in this thread seems to take facebook as the pinnacle of serious business. I don't think I've ever de-tagged/de-friended an ex girlfriend. On ocassion they'll do it to me but I mean ... it's fucking facebook.

rofl +1, I'm the same way...wtf it's just facebook people.