The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

[Brad2770]

Dabamf looking good-

[Tarrant220]

Originally Posted by Stratos

tarrant. the next chapter can't come out soon enough. you're so close to uncovering your bankai. err... I mean.. wat
carry on, carry on

I'm not quite sure how to take that....lol

I just had a wrench throw into some things...not a bad wrench, just a very unexpected one and odd one.

Someone I knew back from high school who is pretty much me...but with a vagina...and much better looking...got a hold of me through facebook and we've been talking for awhile I had a huge thing for her in school but was a pussy back then and didn't say shit, well now years later we're pretty much still the exact same and I'm finding myself liking her again and I know for a fact she likes me too.

Now this doesn't change anything as far as whats going on in my life because she still lives back home in Michigan...but it's just odd that I've been debating on moving back for the last few months and now her and I make contact again. I'm still seeing hairdresser this weekend, shits still going good there, we're making plans for my birthday as well as hers in two weeks.

Nothing new to report really, Recent ex is now seeking attention from any guy that'll give it to her, I chuckle about that a bit I do hope she finds some way to be happy and maintain it though...I still love her son like one of my own, but I've learned to let go of that as well.

I'm finally 100% free of anything that happened in past relationships as far as shit thats messed with my head, it's very freeing and all in all, pretty fucking awesome.

[arkk123]

Originally Posted by Brad2770

Dabamf looking good-

Hot Topic has pool tables?

[ToeMissile]

Originally Posted by arkk123

Hot Topic has pool tables?

studded belt + black t-shirt = hot topic? I was not aware.

[FulorianC]

She's quite obviously got a bit of goth in there.

Not that there's anything wrong with that. Hotness and gothness are often directly proportional.

[Brad2770]

She is kind of a follower, sadly enough. The people she hung out with in the past (the last 2 years) have steered her in that direction, but since she has started hanging out with me, she has busted out a few pieces of her 'preppy' clothes.

She may go with me to my company Christmas Party in Dec. I told her she might be required to dress up some because of the people higher up.... but then I felt bad because I shouldnt have to tell someone to be something they arent. So I told her she could wear whatever she wanted, that i would be rpoud to have her with me no matter what. She said she would still dress up for me.

Anyways, she does prefer a mild Goth look, but she is far from Goth. I have already stated this a year ago.


EDIT- I was mostly posting the pic as a jab at Dabamf.

[Whyme]

Originally Posted by Eomer

I texted back "little big planet" with nothing else, she responds back instantly "awe!! thanks! you're the best!!"

I figured what the fuck, let's dive in here, and responded that she must have meant to say I was "swell." An inside joke between us. She responds back "no I meant the best."

I respond "that's a loaded text, correct me if I'm wrong."

Her: "Ok. But maybe you're over analyzing? I dunno."

Me: "over analyzing is my specialty! Have a fun halloween, I'm hitting the sack."

Her: "Ok. I do miss hanging out with you sometimes. Sorry. Outta line. Sweet dreams."

Me: "You're not sorry! And thanks, that'll make shutting my brain off to go to sleep much easier."

Her: "You're right. Didn't think of that. I am sorry for that. I am."

Me: "No worries, I'm hopped up on neo citran and pot, I should be good. I miss the company too."

I think you might have come on a little strong and now she's not sure if she's really into you, thus causing all of the mixed messages. Your best bet is to draw back, show her you're not some needy whacko and let her try and reconnect with you. Honestly if she calls or texts you after 9 or 10 PM I wouldn't respond - she's most likely drunk and in need of validation. Giving her any attention while she's in that state will only exacerbate the problem.

[Picasso]

you need more exclamation points too.

[Dianetics08]

So my girlfriend and I broke up a week ago. It was kinda weird, we didn't break up for any specific reason, the relationship wasn't even bad, it just wasn't as good as it was. When we were talking about it, I got the feeling that she was breaking up with me so I pretty much gave in and agreed with her that we should break up then so we could still be friends. So, I don't really want to be just friends with her cuz I still like her. We still text some, but at this point I don't know what to do. Do I just break off contact with her, or keep talking with her with the hopes of getting back together? She said at one point that the break up might not be permanent, but I can't tell if she was just being nice or w/e. I'm not too heart broken, I do miss her and she does pop into my mind at least a few times a day. I just don't think I can deal with just being friends.

[Brad2770]

No contact. Nothing.

I WISH I had done that with my Ex from the very beginning.

[arkk123]

Originally Posted by Dianetics08

So my girlfriend and I broke up a week ago. It was kinda weird, we didn't break up for any specific reason, the relationship wasn't even bad, it just wasn't as good as it was. When we were talking about it, I got the feeling that she was breaking up with me so I pretty much gave in and agreed with her that we should break up then so we could still be friends. So, I don't really want to be just friends with her cuz I still like her. We still text some, but at this point I don't know what to do. Do I just break off contact with her, or keep talking with her with the hopes of getting back together? She said at one point that the break up might not be permanent, but I can't tell if she was just being nice or w/e. I'm not too heart broken, I do miss her and she does pop into my mind at least a few times a day. I just don't think I can deal with just being friends.

Any time a girl wants a "break" it means she wants to fuck other people.

Most people can't deal with being just friends, its normal. Out of sight, out of mind. It won't happen like that, but you need to sever ties as much as you can because it'll just eat you alive if you play into her hands.

You are the dude in college right? I reiterate...let it go. Trust me don't be that guy who turns into the psycho ex bf. Everyone called that this would happen, and it is because that is how things go.

Nothing anyone says is going to make it any better, but I can assure you with 100% confidence you'll get over it. As people stated before, you aren't going to marry this girl.

You are young. Slay bitches at will.

[JeydaX]

By the way, the 2 or 3 dudes who were looking for some stuff to do next summer in the MPLS/St. Paul area (runs April-August): My wiffle ball league (best in the country) HRL Twin Cities is having a combine for incoming free agents into the league this Saturday, Nov. 7th at 11:00AM at Sky Hill Park in Eagan.

Send a message to deesnider@hrltwincities.com if you're interested in joining as a new guy and just show up Saturday.

Send me a PM or visit HRL: Twin Cities > Home with any questions.

/derail

[Sutekh]

Originally Posted by Brad2770

She is kind of a follower, sadly enough. The people she hung out with in the past (the last 2 years) have steered her in that direction, but since she has started hanging out with me, she has busted out a few pieces of her 'preppy' clothes.

She may go with me to my company Christmas Party in Dec. I told her she might be required to dress up some because of the people higher up.... but then I felt bad because I shouldnt have to tell someone to be something they arent. So I told her she could wear whatever she wanted, that i would be rpoud to have her with me no matter what. She said she would still dress up for me.

Anyways, she does prefer a mild Goth look, but she is far from Goth. I have already stated this a year ago.


EDIT- I was mostly posting the pic as a jab at Dabamf.

Welcome to the real world, want her to wear whatever she wants? If she wanted to wear anything other then something that would make her look nice and not like a raving vampire then she's a retard.

So my girlfriend and I broke up a week ago. It was kinda weird, we didn't break up for any specific reason, the relationship wasn't even bad, it just wasn't as good as it was. When we were talking about it, I got the feeling that she was breaking up with me so I pretty much gave in and agreed with her that we should break up then so we could still be friends. So, I don't really want to be just friends with her cuz I still like her. We still text some, but at this point I don't know what to do. Do I just break off contact with her, or keep talking with her with the hopes of getting back together? She said at one point that the break up might not be permanent, but I can't tell if she was just being nice or w/e. I'm not too heart broken, I do miss her and she does pop into my mind at least a few times a day. I just don't think I can deal with just being friends.

Just stop responding to texts, ignore her, go meet another girl. Problem solved.

[Dianetics08]

Yeah, I pretty much figured that breaking all contact with her is the right course of action. No worries about being the psycho-ex, it's not like I've been sending her text after text, but from now on no more texts. Kinda feel like a dick, especially if she does really want to be friends, but w/e. Started the hunt for new pussy this past weekend, have one promising lead, a girl that I was friends with last year that I'm almost certain had a crush on me that I was too much of a pussy to make a move on.

[brekk]

You don't have to sever everything entirely, just don't continue on the conversations.

If she's texts you sometime saying she's sick just say "damn that sucks" and leave it at that. I've done this with a few ex's, keep it civil but don't feed into their needs at all. It doesn't require outright ignoring them. Just short simple answers