The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

[Dabamf]

Originally Posted by Tarrant220

Dabamf, I asked on purpose, games aside, if it is an issue then fuck them, I don't need them around. I'm not wasting my time with it. It wasn't an issue of me worrying, it was an issue of me telling them to fuck the hell off if they had said anything other then what the did. I don't care if I get judged for being divorced, but I'm not wasting my time with a bitch who has an issue with it. If you're ever in the same position, maybe you'll kinda know what I'm talking about here I guess.

I get it; didn't see/consider that point of view. Only saw it as asking for reassurance. So yea ignore my statement.

[Tarrant220]

No problem, the two major deal breakers I have are;

1. Issues with my having kids
2. My being divorced

If either of those two things are issues, I move on. Those are two things I can not change (not that I would ever change the fact I have kids, my kids fucking rule) so why waste the time with someone over it.


I flat out told the girl yesterday when she said we could save one of the other options for something to do for another time: "That's true, because honestly once you hang out with me you're gonna be hooked." She said: "hahaha confident aren't we!!?" I laughed and said "I have every reason in the world to be." She told me she liked that and we moved onto another topic.

I'm not sure I've ever been on the level I am now as far as confidence in myself, but it's pretty awesome.

I'm at the point where I don't need reassurance anymore, I've learned to much about myself in the last almost 4 months to need that anymore I think. I know what I can offer, I know what I bring to the table, it's up to them to show ME what they can bring, not the other way around.

[avgeek]

Originally Posted by Tarrant220

No problem, the two major deal breakers I have are;

1. Issues with my having kids
2. My being divorced

If either of those two things are issues, I move on. Those are two things I can not change (not that I would ever change the fact I have kids, my kids fucking rule) so why waste the time with someone over it.


I flat out told the girl yesterday when she said we could save one of the other options for something to do for another time: "That's true, because honestly once you hang out with me you're gonna be hooked." She said: "hahaha confident aren't we!!?" I laughed and said "I have every reason in the world to be." She told me she liked that and we moved onto another topic.

I'm not sure I've ever been on the level I am now as far as confidence in myself, but it's pretty awesome.

I'm at the point where I don't need reassurance anymore, I've learned to much about myself in the last almost 4 months to need that anymore I think. I know what I can offer, I know what I bring to the table, it's up to them to show ME what they can bring, not the other way around.

I can totally empathize with you here. After separating from my wife and starting the work on divorce (what a nightmare...proof positive that time has no bearing on whether you -really- know somebody)...anyways...I did the single thing for a while, just trying to reconnect with who I really am and trying to get back to comfortable. It was a really difficult process after a couple years of trying really hard to be what somebody else wanted. It was weird those first couple of weeks, still stuck in that same routine, then realizing..."wait...what the fuck am I doing...this isn't me at all, I'm not happy at all, this is why we are getting a divorce in the first place"...and I just started going out on my own, making some new female friends and making a concerted effort to go out and present "me"...nothing more, nothing less.

Long story short, my efforts finally paid off in my first real "date" last night and it was truly a great experience to go out with a girl, have a great time, just being me, nothing more and nothing less. It was also a great feeling to have that confidence, something I've been lacking in the past...I think that was my final hurdle...proving to myself that I can go out, be me, and others will like me just fine.

[Tarrant220]

good luck to you with the divorce, even though you'll be grateful for it in a few years (assuming you're not now) they still suck ass to go though.

Last night the girl that's been my friend and I took soup to, she and I went to the MoA and fucked around with this Magic Quest live action game thing...it was kinda odd and kiddy, but we have fun with it which is what matters.

There was a time or two she mentioned another guy, and she sent off a few texts to him...I think she was trying to make me jealous. It worked a bit, though I didn't say anything nor act on it.

Other then that, nothing new has been going on.

[Antarius]

By the way, you guys were totally wrong about the 20 year old I was dating (the hypochondriac, turns out the MRI results were negative for MS), it didn't take 3 months for her to get bored of me, it took 2 1/2 weeks.

To summarize our texted conversation last night:

Her: I want to have sex with another woman.
Me: Oh, you mean like a 3-some, haha?
Her: No, I mean I want a solo relationship with one, to explore my bisexuality which I'd been ignoring lately, I need to figure out what I want from life.
Me: Oh, alright, that's cool, do what you need to, well I'll see you around, was fun while it lasted.

20 minutes pass.

Her: I'm actually really wet and horny right now, wish I was there with you.
Me: Fuck you, 20 minutes ago you were telling me you wanted to see other people.
Her: Ok. I'm sorry about everything

20 minutes pass

Her: I really wish we could at least be friends, you're a really great guy.

20 minutes pass

Her: I never meant to hurt you. I'm just trying to figure myself out.

[Antarius]

And because FoHSS is worthless without pics. 2 pics of the girl and me turning down sex (first for everything in life I guess)

[Tarrant220]

Rofl that's awesome.

I mean...it kinda sucks for ya...but that shit is gold.

[arkk123]

Originally Posted by Antarius

And because FoHSS is worthless without pics. 2 pics of the girl and me turning down sex (first for everything in life I guess)

Didn't you say this girl was hot?

She has arms like Oswald Cobblepot

[Ancalagon]

Originally Posted by arkk123

Didn't you say this girl was hot?

She has arms like Oswald Cobblepot

Rofl.

[Antarius]

Originally Posted by arkk123

Didn't you say this girl was hot?

She has arms like Oswald Cobblepot

[arkk123]

Originally Posted by Antarius

WTB the better angle then

[Antarius]

k, well I'll try to get in one last booty call to appease your demand for pics

[Brad2770]

I had an amazing evening with Cherry.

I have a confeession, though. I couldnt resist. She asked me over Thurs night, so I went. We watched The Invention of Lying.

Anyways, last night we went to a Haunted House that a friend of mine did the website for, so we got free passes into it. It was ok, but not one of the best I have been in. I went with Cherry, Cherry's sister and her sister's boyfriend.

After that, we went to Reindeer Manor (in Red Oak). I love that place. It is definately worth the money. This took a good 3 hours with standing in line and going through 3 different attractions at Reindeer Manor. Once we left, we went back to her sister's house and we made a place to sleep on the livingroom floor.

Since we have started hanging out, I would kiss her, but once it started getting 'steamy', I would stop. Last night, the same thing was happening and I pulled away from her (I dont want her to think I am after her just for sex). She grabbed the back of my head and said "Dont stop." I kept kissing her and she started guiding my hands places. We ended up having sex and it was amazing.

She has been blowing up my phone all morning and is already talking about us doing something tonight. I told her I was busy at work and that I would talk to her later tonight.

Things feel pretty good right now.

[Dabamf]

What's it gonna take to rename this chick?

[brekk]

Yeah, unless she's a stripper and/or prostitute, "Cherry," is not going to work as a codename.