The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread - Page 360

Brad2770 · 07-08-2009, 10:16 PM

Been talking to a woman since about mid April. Started hanging out the first of June. Pretty much have seen her everyday since June 1st (she requests it). I have keys to her front door and I am allowed to come and go at her place as I please. I even took my PS3 over there (and it is there now). I even decide when I want to stay the night.

We started having sex mid-June. She went out of town for the Fourth. Went to San Antonio with some friends and partied it up.

Before this weekend, we had never really had an official date, just went and watched a couple of movies that both of us wanted to see, that was it. She sent me a text (unsolicited) last Friday saying that she would like for me to take her on a date sometime, if I was interested. That same night, she told me she 'kind of' missed me. I didnt say anything back to her about it.

Well, when she came back Sunday, her laptop screen stopped working. She was tired and kind of in a crabby mood. Monday, we spent all night looking for her a new one. We didnt get done until almost 10 at night. She was extra crabby and snapped at me a lot.

The next morning, I asked her on a date. She was excited and said yes. I gave her a mild run down of what my plans were. That night, she was still kind of short with me and quick to snap. (come to find out, she started her period).

This weekend would have been our first date and I didnt want things to be shitty. I have felt like I have been on the defensive the last couple of days and didnt want to feel like that for our first date, so I delayed the date until another time. She asked me over and over why I wanted to cancel. I told her I didnt feel like going this weekend. She didnt believe me.

My real reason is because we have not kissed yet. I am not much of a kisser. If I am going to do it, I want things to be at their best. Silly, but its just how I feel. I didnt think things would be at its best with her on her period.

Well, when i told her, she asked if I would prefer things to be how they are... just two friends having sex and hanging out. I said I didnt mind dating, just wanted things to be perfect.

Well, I didnt see her last thurs, Fri, Sat and most of Sunday and now she is telling me she thinks we need a few days break. Ok.

I asked if she was still open to dating other men and she said she was not currently interested in anyone, but that she wasnt going to promise that she would only see me, but up to this point, she hadnt thought about other men.

I am really not interested in any other women. I really dont think she is interested in any other men. I am giving a good portion of her actions tonight to the fact she is on her period. I dont really know what her current thought process is, but I have been nothing but a gentleman to her and she gets bent out of shape because I delayed our first date....

Oh, and she did tell me tonight that she really did miss me this past weekend and couldnt wait to get back to see me. I told her that i had missed her too.

Dabamf · 07-08-2009, 11:08 PM

How do you fuck without kissing? That's just so weird to me, never done it.

brekk · 07-08-2009, 11:08 PM

Walk up to her and shove your tongue so far down her throat her knees give out and you have to hold her up.

In other news. Just got back from date #2 with fireworks girl. Got a late dinner at TGIF, just appetizers and almost missed the movie we were gonna see because we were talking up a storm and lost track of time. Went and saw The Hangover.

Found out she hasn't seen Half-Baked, (she smokes) so I told her I'll have to watch it with her sometime and catch her up on some of the great stoner comedies she's missed.

Had a goodnight kiss, and an awesome hug that felt like she didn't want to let go. =D

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Originally Posted by Dabamf

How do you fuck without kissing? That's just so weird to me, never done it.

It's not as absurd as you think. Like 2 years back there was a girl I dated for a bit, one of the first times we hung out we were laying on my couch watching a movie with me behind her. Basically clothed spooning, my hands were around her and ended up making there way down her shirt before we actually kissed.

But yeah, how do you not at least kiss during sex? Or do you mean first "date" kiss, not mid sex making out.

Alcestis · 07-08-2009, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Dabamf

How do you fuck without kissing? That's just so weird to me, never done it.

Even more strange than that is being a stoner and never having seen Half-Baked.

Barellron · 07-08-2009, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Brad2770

We started having sex mid-June.

This weekend would have been our first date and I didnt want things to be shitty.

My real reason is because we have not kissed yet.

You put the cart in front of the horse, and then your dick about a mile ahead of that. I applaud but seriously, just go over there and kiss her.

Everlast · 07-08-2009, 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by brekk

It's not as absurd as you think. Like 2 years back there was a girl I dated for a bit, one of the first times we hung out we were laying on my couch watching a movie with me behind her. Basically clothed spooning, my hands were around her and ended up making there way down her shirt before we actually kissed.

But yeah, how do you not at least kiss during sex? Or do you mean first "date" kiss, not mid sex making out.

I mean I can understand feeling up a chick whilst spooning before making out, while not the usual route it makes sense. But managing to fuck without so much as one kiss kind of boggles my mind, unless she just got her wisdom teeth out.

Brad2770 · 07-08-2009, 11:30 PM

Not kissing is a lot of why I do not do too well with women. I know I should kiss, but it does not feel natural with me.

And just walking up and kissing her wouldn't work. It would feel way too fake for me and she could probably tell.

The 'No kissing' is mutual. I do want to kiss her, but I want to be relaxed and for it to feel right.

This is our first problem since we have been hanging out.

brekk · 07-08-2009, 11:32 PM

Believe me I used to have that issue. I'd obsess over waiting for that moment when you both lock eyes and it's all magic.

Those moments rarely happen in real life. Just go for it.

OhSeven · 07-09-2009, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Brad2770

Oh, and she did tell me tonight that she really did miss me this past weekend and couldnt wait to get back to see me. I told her that i had missed her too.

Seconds before Brad let those words leave his lips...

GrobbeeTrull2.0 · 07-09-2009, 06:53 AM

Brad, can you only kiss people you love? Like... did you kiss the ex-wife?

Brad2770 · 07-09-2009, 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by OhSeven

Seconds before Brad let those words leave his lips...

I only said it because you are supposed to mirror what the women do. Dont get me wrong, I missed not having her around, but I wasnt dying because she wasnt there.

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Originally Posted by GrobbeeTrull2.0

Brad, can you only kiss people you love? Like... did you kiss the ex-wife?

Yes, I kissed my ex, but not a lot. When i would get home for work and right before she would go to bed. I really dont remember if we kissed during sex. maybe a couple of times.

I kissed the older woman I dated, but it didnt feel right, so I stopped. The 19 yr old used to bitch that I would kiss with my eyes open, when we did actually kiss.

The last time I kissed a woman was back in March when I was hanging out with that short red head. She kissed me and I tried to go with the flow, but just stopped her.

Oh well.

Eomer · 07-09-2009, 07:39 AM

That's just fucking weird. Seriously.

Ronaan · 07-09-2009, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Eomer

That's just fucking weird. Seriously.

qft...

I don't know, different folks...

I'm definitely a "kiss person". And it's not limited to the mouth either. Kissing and nibbling makes up roughly 87% of a good fucking session.

Yes I pulled that number right out of my ass.

Eomer · 07-09-2009, 07:56 AM

I just don't understand how foreplay or romance or intimacy can possibly work without kissing. It would be like a business transaction. I mean yeah, once you've settled in to a routine with a girl oftentimes the sex becomes almost business like. But how does that first time even go down if there isn't some heavy petting and making out to signal that both parties are interested?

GrobbeeTrull2.0 · 07-09-2009, 08:03 AM

Well, the next question we need to solve is why Brad can't kiss. Molestation? Humiliation? What gives?

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brekk Warning: objects may appear more edible than they actually are Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: The CT Posts: 6,387 +17 Internets	Believe me I used to have that issue. I'd obsess over waiting for that moment when you both lock eyes and it's all magic. Those moments rarely happen in real life. Just go for it. __________________ Brekk SPriest Liesol LOLRet Frstshck Enhance

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GrobbeeTrull2.0 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Dayton, Ohio Posts: 4,174	Brad, can you only kiss people you love? Like... did you kiss the ex-wife? __________________ "When the last tree has died; and the last river been poisoned; and the last fish been caught, we will realise that we cannot eat money." - Cree proverb

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GrobbeeTrull2.0 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Dayton, Ohio Posts: 4,174	Well, the next question we need to solve is why Brad can't kiss. Molestation? Humiliation? What gives? __________________ "When the last tree has died; and the last river been poisoned; and the last fish been caught, we will realise that we cannot eat money." - Cree proverb

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07-08-2009, 11:08 PM	#5387 (permalink)
Dabamf Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Seoul, Korea Posts: 2,338 +15 Internets	How do you fuck without kissing? That's just so weird to me, never done it.

07-09-2009, 07:39 AM	#5397 (permalink)
Eomer You mean I can change this? Neat! Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 12,975 +66 Internets	That's just fucking weird. Seriously.

07-09-2009, 07:56 AM	#5399 (permalink)
Eomer You mean I can change this? Neat! Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 12,975 +66 Internets	I just don't understand how foreplay or romance or intimacy can possibly work without kissing. It would be like a business transaction. I mean yeah, once you've settled in to a routine with a girl oftentimes the sex becomes almost business like. But how does that first time even go down if there isn't some heavy petting and making out to signal that both parties are interested?