The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

[brekk]

Originally Posted by 3xodus

She's Just Not That Into You (She's That Into Everyone) | The Stimulist

Some of you may find that article an interesting read. I know I did, because I recently have been having a falling out with a girl just like one described in the article, and it's frustrating how accurate the whole story is to my own.

Just thought I would share.

That article was painful to read. It was almost like a down to the moment description of this last girl.

Last night after mentioning that she'd probably be single again in two weeks she said "I don't think I'm meant to end up with anyone" she's the "G" girl to the core.

[Salshun]

Originally Posted by brekk

That article was painful to read. It was almost like a down to the moment description of this last girl.

Last night after mentioning that she'd probably be single again in two weeks she said "I don't think I'm meant to end up with anyone" she's the "G" girl to the core.

I've known a few guys in love with "G" girls, and one trait about them always seems to show its' ugly head. The guys will have a great "friend day" with these girls, then that night she'll go to a bar with her friends. She's meet a douche bag that makes her buy her own drinks (and his), rips on her friends, gets her to take him to her place, fucks her blind for 8 hours, then "G" girl goes back to one of my friends for another "we're just friends" kind of day.

Shit makes me sick.

[niteflyx]

Originally Posted by Vatoreus

Dallas gents, I'll be in town tomorrow night with some friends. We're gonna go out clubbing or whatever, so hit me up if you want to make a meet.

We need a meet-up thread, or some of you assholes from Philly need to step it up.

[LiquidDeath]

Originally Posted by Salshun

Link might interest you guys. Or make you want to ridge-hand a chick.

On marriage: Let’s call the whole thing off - TODAY: Relationships

I can't believe I read every word of that trash. My first clue it would be a bunch of angry feminist bullshit was when she said she had an affair, but only after so many years of monogamy.

News flash, if your husband works at staying in shape and you let yourself go it is your fault he doesn't fuck you. What husband wouldn't indulge his wife and take on some extra responsibility if she told him she wanted to get in shape?

[3xodus]

Originally Posted by brekk

That article was painful to read. It was almost like a down to the moment description of this last girl.

Last night after mentioning that she'd probably be single again in two weeks she said "I don't think I'm meant to end up with anyone" she's the "G" girl to the core.

Yeah, tell me about it. The "G" girl pretty much described the girl I just fell out with too. I read that article and it made some of the things that had happened between us clear as day, but then it just made me frustrated because I realized that the feelings I had towards her were wasted because she made so many guys feel the same way I did.

To make it even worse, I was strung along for 7 months and figured it was just bad luck that she didn't have feelings for me. Then when we split ways, she started talking to a guy I know, did the same thing to him, and then I watched him get played the same way I did. He had feelings for her, she didn't have feelings for him. He gushed his feelings, she had to tell him she didn't feel anything between them. It was like watching my own past relationship happen in front of me on fast forward.

Shit sucks.

[Snugglebear]

Originally Posted by Salshun

Link might interest you guys. Or make you want to ridge-hand a chick.

On marriage: Let’s call the whole thing off - TODAY: Relationships

Translation: My marriage failed because I'm a cunt, so marriage must be an outdated concept. PS, I write articles for a faggy ultra-elitist magazine for a living and drink Merlot, so I thought I should turn this into an article and try to start a fad on a talk show.

[A2T]

Originally Posted by 3xodus

She's Just Not That Into You (She's That Into Everyone) | The Stimulist

Some of you may find that article an interesting read. I know I did, because I recently have been having a falling out with a girl just like one described in the article, and it's frustrating how accurate the whole story is to my own.

Just thought I would share.

This is exactly what made me hesitate to long with the last girl. She was giving a lot of attention, but I noticed she did that with everyone. Had no idea how to interpret this, so failed to act when my chance came up. At least I never acted like "boy" in the above story. I'm far too reserved to ever give away personal details unless asked directly, and even then I'll likely understate.
(When given advice to just go for it, I think my response was something like "No, she's everyone's friend like that, and I'm having too much fun right now to risk fucking it up." Which was an excuse to be timid.)

That article just cleared up a lot of confusing shit for me, thanks. I knew I'd fucked up when I didn't take my opportunity, and, from the start, that it wouldn't work out based on my personality and her background, but I couldn't see her motivations. (and understanding motivations for seeking companionship is necessary to decide if you can meet their needs, and how.)

Can't say I'll be any better off should I meet a similar girl, but my mind is a little more at ease now. Perhaps hanging out with a girl I'm still attracted to without being able to act on it (while still enjoying this time) will toughen me up some? I think so.

Originally Posted by 3xodus

...she started talking to a guy I know, did the same thing to him, and then I watched him get played the same way I did. He had feelings for her, she didn't have feelings for him. He gushed his feelings, she had to tell him she didn't feel anything between them.

The whole point of the article is that she's not playing anyone, she's just being herself? Sounds like the guy played himself by basing expectations on an inaccurate analysis of their relationship. Anyway, don't you think it sucks just as much for the girl to watch her friend torn up because she can't feel anything in return, and then probably lose that friendship? Not to mention the awkwardness ... Or hell, just the disappointment of yet another guy turning out to be lame. Experience that enough times, and I can see how she might become callous towards guys who too easily get attached and clingy.


Dabamf: Busan since the beginning of March. Loving the beaches.

[FulorianC]

Originally Posted by Snugglebear

Translation: My marriage failed because I'm a cunt, so marriage must be an outdated concept. PS, I write articles for a faggy ultra-elitist magazine for a living and drink Merlot, so I thought I should turn this into an article and try to start a fad on a talk show.

The moment the word 'therapist' entered the article, my brain turned off and I wanted to cunt punch the author. Oh noes, I don't love my sugar daddy that's on the road 20 weeks a year earning big fucking bucks so I can see a psychiatrist!

[TheCutlery]

Originally Posted by Brad2770

I was joking.

In all seriousness, it baffles me why you are not more 'successful'. I mean, you do well, much better than some of us other scrubs.

If I had to guess, I'd say it's because Eomer doesn't like the type of women that he attracts, and then he fucks up with the women he does like by coming on too strong. The shallow, vapid, gold digging cunts that would typically follow a pretty well-off guy around don't spur his interest, and the chicks he is interested in, he smothers.

[Zarniwoop]

Originally Posted by TheCutlery

If I had to guess, I'd say it's because Eomer doesn't like the type of women that he attracts, and then he fucks up with the women he does like by coming on too strong.

I'm not sure it's all his fault. I would add that he also just hasn't gotten lucky and found someone he meshes with completely.

You can modify your behaviour - to a point - to make dating more successful; however, in a long-term relationship you have to be yourself, and if you're not compatible, you're not compatible.

[3xodus]

Originally Posted by A2T

The whole point of the article is that she's not playing anyone, she's just being herself? Sounds like the guy played himself by basing expectations on an inaccurate analysis of their relationship. Anyway, don't you think it sucks just as much for the girl to watch her friend torn up because she can't feel anything in return, and then probably lose that friendship? Not to mention the awkwardness ... Or hell, just the disappointment of yet another guy turning out to be lame. Experience that enough times, and I can see how she might become callous towards guys who too easily get attached and clingy.

Yeah, you're actually pretty dead on with how she probably feels when you put it that way. Maybe I'm just bitter and sympathetic because I know what it feels like to be the guy who felt strung along when it was just a bad reading on her feelings the entire time.

It sucks because she's a really cool girl, but I wanted to be something more than a friend just because she's the first person to really connect to me the way she did. I don't really want that anymore now that I've come to realize that she has this effect on a lot of people, and odds are her feelings will never change and meet the ones I used to have. I know she tried to change them but somethings don't always work out I guess.

[Brad2770]

Puberty and Jr. High/Highschool are a bitch. I had some nice female friends during gradeschool that faded when you went from treating them like a buddy to wanting to fuck them like a bunny.

[Vehn]

Anyone ever use craigslist to pick up chicks and what not? Most of it seems to be prostitutes or people who aren't who they say they are (aka. people who just reply to the email and link you to a porn site with malware), but I figure some of it has to be decent.

[Aztlan]

I've gone on a few dates from craigslist, but you have to be aware that you're competing against a lot more guys for each girl posting, especially if they have a pic b/c of the way craigslist is set up. It's just plain easier to do it on pof, okcupid, or mingle2. Although, that didn't stop me from trying it while I was on all the other sites.

Yea, my e-mail now receives endless spam, it's annoying! So make sure you use an e-mail you don't care about.

[brekk]

Cragislist is sketchy, I talked with a girl a little bit I met on there, but most of the time the postings aren't legit people.

Dating sites are nice because of the registering requirement, and how easy it so see if someone has filled out their profile. That's a great way to know if its a real person or a bot.


Going out on a date to see fireworks with a PoF girl later on.