The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread

[Draegan]

Originally Posted by Alcestis

Because I let years of internet cynicism turn me into a knee-jerk reaction mocking bitch. My apologies to the aggrieved parties and to any others who were insulted.

You did the right thing Brad, both with your date and with the ex. We're proud of you. Gotta say with Eomer though, I'm waiting for the other possibly hilarious shoe to drop. Hope that doesn't work out like that though: she seems really cool. And Draegan - all your posts in this thread about this girl were that she was normal, rather beautiful, and you give monthly updates thanking people for introducing you to OkCupid to meet this chick. You're holding out on us. >:O

Sometimes I forget to check up on this thread.

So a recap and an update. Me and this chick from okcupid met for our first date on January 17. We dated for a while etc everything is awesome.

We're now living together.

Love's grand.

Love teh FOHSS.

[Brad2770]

Wow, no way I could move in with someone that fast. I hope it works out for you. I really dont see how things could move that fast.

[Draegan]

Everyone's different.

[Tyen]

I'm sorry to be e-mailing you again, but Dan, I'm so confused and hurt. I
don't really know what's going on
and why we haven't talked in over a week. I understand that you're slaying
dragons but I'm so confused as
to why you haven't been on aim to talk to me. I'm used to talking to you
almost everyday. If I did
something to make you not want to talk to me, can you please just tell me? I
feel so in the dark as to
what's going on because when you left here I thought everything seemed to be
normal. I love you and
care about you so much and not knowing whats going on and why we're not
speaking really bothers me
and hurts me. I know I've sent you two other emails and you still haven't
come online to talk to me, but
please just sign on and talk to me and let me know what's going on, I'm your
girlfriend, you should be
able to talk to me about anything like this. Plus, I also need to know whats
going on with the Indianapolis
thing, if that's still happening? Love ya.

Love,
Jen

this

[Snugglebear]

Originally Posted by aychamo_aycono

If you were going to ask about the first date stuff, it was all about being fun and doing original things. I cooked her a badass dish from an ethnicity of food she had never even tried before. Had a nice bottle of her favorite type of wine (I refuse to spend more than $40 on a bottle.) Great conversation, and then made homemade ice cream (you can switch in home made smores also, works great.) It's infinitely better than if we had gone out for dinner and a movie - that's too typical. ...... but, the thing is, you can plan the most badass date in the world, but if she and I had not been a good match it would have been awkward, would have gone bad, and probably not have repeated the date. It's all about finding the right person. I think!

I gotta say, Indian food on a first date is balls-of-steel. I'd be afraid of sharting during the cuddling.

[bofa]

I understand that you're slaying
dragons

quote of the year...i lol'd

[Draz]

Originally Posted by bofa

quote of the year...i lol'd

espcially nice considering he is making it up!

[GrobbeeTrull2.0]

And what's worse than if he's not faking it? That he chose EQ over his girlfriend and actually thinks its cool.

[Incognitogamer]

Originally Posted by GrobbeeTrull2.0

And what's worse than if he's not faking it? That he chose EQ over his girlfriend and actually thinks its cool.

Depends on the girl. I was addicted to EQ for 5 years and I've never been addicted to a girl that long.

[brekk]

Seems like his silence is an answer to the Indianapolis thing.

[Alcestis]

aychamo, I think you don't fully deserve all the shit that follows you around here, but for someone who said the married/divorce line opener is quality (twice), advocated waiting at least two days between initiating texts, ripped into Dabamf for not being able to get laid and having a girlfriend while you yourself have "fucked a lot of girls but only had less than a handful of actual girlfriends", and to top it all off, claimed that "it's been so long since the last time I was in a real healthy one, (if ever.)" (bolded for emphasis) when that comment happened to be on your PREVIOUS thuper awethome relationship... you can't blame people for calling you out on a complete 180 whenever you fall in love with someone new. When you say you've had a string of healthy relationships, do you mean the one previous and this current one? Two is a "string"? Really? >.<

I'm all for changing your mind within half a year, but it's not fine to make fun of others for giving the same advice you yourself followed and gave for that long, while simultaneously inflating your experience to make it appear you're a definitive fount of successful relationship knowledge. Cut out the low blows to Dabamf. Retaliating when someone tries to cockjoust and you said you'd keep it "civil" is doing the thing you put others on ignore for: being a troll. You can do better than that.




Grats, Draegan. I was mainly referring to the complete lack of tits you've posted, but I guess that'll do. For now.

[Draegan]

Yeah.. tits. Well I'll work on that.

[aychamo_aycono]

Thank you for quoting what I already stated. All that shit you linked too is great for getting laid, but not advice for how to succeed in a relationship. Follow along, nurse.

And I stand by what I said to Dabamf, dude thinks he's a god of relationship advice and talks like he is a pro with women, but he can't even get laid! (in 4 months!). Nor can he handle one Korean girl. I guess it's true: "Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach!"

Originally Posted by Alcestis

aychamo, I think you don't fully deserve all the shit that follows you around here, but for someone who said the married/divorce line opener is quality (twice), advocated waiting at least two days between initiating texts, ripped into Dabamf for not being able to get laid and having a girlfriend while you yourself have "fucked a lot of girls but only had less than a handful of actual girlfriends", and to top it all off, claimed that "it's been so long since the last time I was in a real healthy one, (if ever.)" (bolded for emphasis) when that comment happened to be on your PREVIOUS thuper awethome relationship... you can't blame people for calling you out on a complete 180 whenever you fall in love with someone new. When you say you've had a string of healthy relationships, do you mean the one previous and this current one? Two is a "string"? Really? >.<

I'm all for changing your mind within half a year, but it's not fine to make fun of others for giving the same advice you yourself followed and gave for that long, while simultaneously inflating your experience to make it appear you're a definitive fount of successful relationship knowledge. Cut out the low blows to Dabamf. Retaliating when someone tries to cockjoust and you said you'd keep it "civil" is doing the thing you put others on ignore for: being a troll. You can do better than that.




Grats, Draegan. I was mainly referring to the complete lack of tits you've posted, but I guess that'll do. For now.

[Alcestis]

Originally Posted by aychamo_aycono

Thank you for quoting what I already stated. All that shit you linked too is great for getting laid, but not advice for how to succeed in a relationship.

Exactly. You were initially responding to bofa, who might care about a relationship in the long run, but is currently NOW in the stage of "gaming" this chick of his. If he thinks this is lasting material, he can later drop the act. You yourself said it is good to fake confidence you may not have, which bofa appears to need. After all, he was asking if he should kiss on the first date after (IMO) needlessly lying about his age, for God's sake. Your advice didn't (and doesn't) sync with his current situation. And you mocked others who use those methods, on top of it. THAT was the point of my post. The only, only, reason you jumped in to offer your sage wisdom about stable relationships (and act hoity-toity about not needing "the game") was because you wanted to show everyone that your shit was peaches, unicorns, and rainbows. Like it always is... until the bitch dies.

Follow along, nurse.

Shut the fuck up, "doctor".

For someone who actually defended you and thought you got more mistreatment than necessary, I stand corrected. You deserve all of the shit you get.



{edit}: If not more.

[Azrayne]

I understand that you're slaying
dragons

Ahah. Pure fucking gold.