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05-25-2009, 09:08 PM
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| Forza Roma! Forza Azzuri!  Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: San Angelo, TX
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05-25-2009, 09:22 PM
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| is fucking stupid.  Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Earth
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05-25-2009, 09:25 PM
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| 100% Pure Soy Monk Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Ft. Lauderdale, FL
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05-25-2009, 09:34 PM
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| Forza Roma! Forza Azzuri! Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: San Angelo, TX
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| Fine. Went and saw my girl, her family doesn't much approve of us being together. We get found out, she goes home, and I hide in the woods for a couple hours, waiting for them to leave. They don't, her father shows up, so I go out to meet them. He hits me a couple times, I hit him in the gut before his brother grabs hold of me. Get hit one more time before I book it barefoot down the road, tearing up the bottom of my feet. I end up running to her mom's property, unwittingly (we met up down the road) woo woo. I talk with her uncle a bit, he's calm and rational. Her dad shows up back at the house, starts saying something about criminal trespass, so I get up and start to leave, as the sheriff pulls up. I get called back to tell them what's going on, they talk to the dad, I get put under arrest for criminal trespass and spend the night in jail. Moral of the story is: Don't piss off hicks who will stick together and corroborate a story to land your ass in jail. Bailed out this morning and have a court date for June 9. Spoilered my foot. Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Last edited by Vatoreus; 05-25-2009 at 09:36 PM.. |
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05-25-2009, 09:36 PM
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| Sly.  Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Florida
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05-25-2009, 11:13 PM
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| Registered User Join Date: Dec 2005
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+1 Internets | So I got a question for all your armchair relationship experts... What do you guys thing about a large age discrepancy in a relationship. I've met a girl that I'm older than, but when I initially guessed her age after hanging out with her for a few days...I was way off (by about 6 years and I am usually pretty spot on with ages). Had I known her age initially I might have been a little less eager to move forward, but now that we've spent some time together, I hate bailing on the fact of age alone. So...Good thing, bad thing, depends on the people involved? Your thoughts or experiences please... |
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05-26-2009, 12:27 AM
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| Hello, nurse.  Join Date: Aug 2005
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+140 Internets | ... come on now. That sounds like a possibly hilarious, "I accidentally an underaged girl" type story. To your question. I can't offer any personal experience on a large age gap. Most people I've spoken with say it's relative to the ages themselves, even if the number of years is the same: there's a difference between a 42 and 48-year-old dating vs. say, a 24 and 18-year-old. Depends on the people and the details which we are lacking. Not knowing anything, I'd say you're probably a cad to bail solely based on age if everything else is perfect. Needs clarification. Vatoreus: Damn. That's some pretty amazing stuff you're putting up with for this chick. |
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05-26-2009, 12:44 AM
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| Ultima Ratio Regum Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: California
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05-26-2009, 02:13 AM
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| more than a feelin'  Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: not Vegas
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I basically agree with Alcestis, the older you are the less age difference matters, and that you should give more info.
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05-26-2009, 03:09 AM
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| Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Seoul, Korea
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To me, a large age gap would most definitely cause problems. Hell I am different than I was 2 years ago, and 2 years from now I'll be different than I am now. But it depends on the person and the age difference, and the maturity level of each. In short I wouldn't let age alone determine anything. The only reason age matters is for what it implies. You may find out in time that you can really tell that she's 6 years younger than you originally thought, but if you couldn't tell then it doesn't matter at all. I got nothin really interesting to report. Been out w/ the same Korean girl 5-6 times now but its over the course of like 1 1/2 months. We have an awesome time when we are together and, especially recently, she acts like we are an inseparable couple when together. But when we are apart, it seems like she doesn't make much of an effort at all, and I am only able to catch her free 1-2 times a week. But when together I can tell by her body language and some of the things she lets slip after a couple drinks I know she is completely in to me. And my reads are almost always dead-on. A Korean male friend of mine has given me a lot of assistance dealing with a Korean girl. The difference is huge. There so much more trust-building its ridiculous. I thought I was past that point after the dvd room but he tells me I still have a little way to go to get her to trust me. He said to be relentless, ignore how she acts and just show all my interest. This is totally counter to what I do with American girls, but I've followed it anyway and it's all been really solid so far. When I do what I typically do, I feel her pull away, but when I ignore her lack of effort and just push push push I can feel her come around again. That said, I fuckin hate it and it's such a pain in the ass. I'm still evaluating HER, yet the only way to get closer and be able to do that is to basically show that I'm completely in to her and get her to feel close enough to me to not blow me off whenever it suits her. He said he expects to get blown off routinely for over a month, and he just keeps his mouth shut about it. And then a little bit later when they are together officially the girl is all over him and he is the one that has to create distance and hang out with outside friends. I know that I really enjoy spending time with her and she's definitely not a typical Korean girl in a lot of ways, but that's about all I know. Yet I'm forced to put in more effort and show more interest just to get her to come around. And from what I can tell, every fuckin Korean girl is like that. This girl is the biggest mold-breaker I've seen so far and even she is like it a little. The most difficult part about it is that after being here for 2 1/2 months, the newness of everything has completely worn off and I'm at a point where I see nothing but insanity everywhere. It's a pretty typical and temporary phase of living in a different culture from what I've read. But I'm at a point where this chick is one of the few things I actually look forward to, and when plans fall through or she oversleeps the day after her bday and misses our appointment it makes me wanna dropkick a small child. And god damn their ideas about sex are from the 1950s. It actually does benefit the girls because there is no "oh I don't really like her that much but I'm gonna keep in contact just to maybe hook up." There is no man horny enough to tolerate all the headaches if he doesn't actually like the chick. I both like her a lot and am dealing with my longest dry-spell by a factor of 4, and both things combined are STILL barely enough to keep me from giving up out of frustration. Last edited by Dabamf; 05-26-2009 at 03:14 AM.. | |
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05-26-2009, 05:14 AM
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05-26-2009, 05:16 AM
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| Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Dayton, Ohio
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05-26-2009, 06:53 AM
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I dated a girl who was 18 when I was 22 and it was horrible. Though a college freshman versus college senior are light and day in terms of maturity.
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