The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread - Page 259

Eomer · 04-13-2009, 08:35 AM

So as far as my things go with Anne, nothing juicy to report really. We went to the hockey game on Friday, and then I dropped by her place on Sunday for a couple hours of sport fucking, and things seem to go very well. Chick seems pretty much universally awesome. She even changed her summer/winter tires on her car herself. Only problem is she refused to change mine :/.

Dumar · 04-13-2009, 08:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Simas

Some crazy bitch broke Dumar and now he just wants sandbox games.

i've had my fair share. i just refuse to waste time with drama (and esp reflecting about it), but you can't really avoid it. you just have to recognize that fact and move on. no amount of posting about girls' txt messages or what she did on sunday will stop the hamster from running--it just does it.

Dabamf · 04-13-2009, 08:48 AM

Ronaan:

Your ex didn't realize that you are "the one". She saw you possibly with another woman, when she currently has no other man, and the human fear of loss kicked in and drove her to get you to sabatage your current romantic interest. If she had discovered that instead you were at home reading war and peace instead of seeing women, I'm willing to bet large amounts of money withot even knowing either of you that she would not be begging you to get back with her.

You also ARE being a vagina with the ex. Letting her see u at work and JESUS letting her convince u to call back the new girl is fuckin horrible. Not only do you let your ex make your decisions for you and ruin a possibly good thing, bit that pussy behavior is exactly what will ruin the relationship even if you get back together.

That's why being a pussy is lose lose. Many guys are pussies because they don't want to lose their demanding controlling soulstealing girlfriends, but exactly what makes a guy end up with a girl like that is the same thing that makes her not respect u. That's why those types of girls are fucked in relationships.

Grow a pair and decide what you want,rationally, and stick to it. If a girl continually tries to manipulate u it means you have already given in in the past. A girl won't try that shit unless she thinks it might work.

Unrelated, I have been in korea for a bit over 1 month now and it took a bit but I met a very cute k girl. I had girls in the USA somewhat down and understood, but it's a whole new game here. Nothing to say right now and eventual naked pics are unlikely but try I will.

Braen · 04-13-2009, 08:51 AM

I know you said Korea but what the hell:

Alotta Fagina: In Japan, men come first and women come second.
Austin Powers: Or sometimes not at all.

Ronaan · 04-13-2009, 04:14 PM

You're right Dabamf, I let the ex control my behaviour too much.

Jessie is really cool about the ex sending me text messages (for now at least). Only happens at the worst of times (i.e. during a quite encouraging period of groping and kissing and stuff). I'm sure it will end soon. I'm not really answering any more.

Just got home from Jessie's place and it was all kinds of awesome. We seem to connect really well. She's the woman I want, and I told her that. I also told her I never make the same mistake twice, so what happened on saturday evening won't happen again.
She's adorable. And cute. And she has her own little stubborn head.
I like that a lot.

brekk · 04-13-2009, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Ronaan

Jessie is really cool about the ex sending me text messages (for now at least). Only happens at the worst of times (i.e. during a quite encouraging period of groping and kissing and stuff). I'm sure it will end soon.

PUT YOUR DAMN PHONE ON SILENT

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I'm not really answering any more.

Which means you have answered in the past while with Jessie there. /facepalm

FulorianC · 04-13-2009, 04:39 PM

Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you? Block her goddamn number.

Brad2770 · 04-13-2009, 05:00 PM

FOH decides my fate.

Met a nice hispanic woman on PoF. Been talking to her on and off the last 2 days. She gave me her number today around 4pm. I just texted her about 10 minutes ago letting her know who I am.

What now? I am taking my son out to dinner, so I will not text her until I get back to read what has been said. I will use my best judgement and decide from realistic advice.

I will see if you guys date as good as you think. I will do everything that is said (within reason).

If it works, you know I am good for pics.

Eomer · 04-13-2009, 05:07 PM

Tell her within 30 minutes of meeting her your entire life story, including about your son. Surely you will get mad poon.

But seriously, what the fuck do you want, us to plan the whole date and feed you lines? For this to really work, you're going to need to rig up a live web broadcast on IRC or something.

How about you take her on a date, find out if you're romantically attracted to her and don't just view her as a warm hole, and take it from there?

Ravvenn · 04-13-2009, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Brad2770

FOH decides my fate.

I will do everything that is said (within reason).

Therapy is within reason, yes?

Salshun · 04-13-2009, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Eomer

Tell her within 30 minutes of meeting her your entire life story, including about your son. Surely you will get mad poon.

But seriously, what the fuck do you want, us to plan the whole date and feed you lines? For this to really work, you're going to need to rig up a live web broadcast on IRC or something.

How about you take her on a date, find out if you're romantically attracted to her and don't just view her as a warm hole, and take it from there?

A dozen of us outside in a van, with an ear-piece communications set up. The van will have a communication setup to a chat room with the rest of us taking votes on what to say at every moment. No matter what wins, he says it, no matter how inappropriate. Yeah, that should do.

"I have been instructed to ask you to put your titties on the glass."

ToeMissile · 04-13-2009, 06:23 PM

"Would you mind bending over, I need to take your temperature?"?

Ronaan · 04-14-2009, 08:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by brekk

PUT YOUR DAMN PHONE ON SILENT

I plan to do that from now on (or just shut it off completely).

Azrayne · 04-14-2009, 09:35 AM

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I will do everything that is said (within reason).

You need to A) stop persuing random women to try and validate yourself and fill the hole in your life left by your ex-wife and then b) get some goddamn therapy.

You seem like a decent guy, but you're shooting yourself in the fucking foot. Your attempts at relationships are ruined from the word 'go' because your every thought and action is made with some subconscious part of you thinking about your ex or trying to prove some stupid point to yourself.

There are people out there who spend lots their time and money getting training and a degree so you can pay them your money to have them help you with this shit. Go see one of them.

schwein · 04-14-2009, 06:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Salshun

A dozen of us outside in a van, with an ear-piece communications set up. The van will have a communication setup to a chat room with the rest of us taking votes on what to say at every moment. No matter what wins, he says it, no matter how inappropriate. Yeah, that should do.

"I have been instructed to ask you to put your titties on the glass."

sounds like a perfect movie plot.

when romance fails, turn to fohss. we just have some guy to go on dates with chicks and we hold everything he does to a vote online. comedy and hilarity will ensue. it has to work.

we get jason segel, paul rudd, seth rogen, jonah hill maybe some of their other funny supporting actors. they can play the people in the van, jason segel can play the guy on the date he is tall, goofy and akward.

04-13-2009, 04:14 PM	#3875 (permalink)
Ronaan Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Germany Posts: 575 +13 Internets	You're right Dabamf, I let the ex control my behaviour too much. Jessie is really cool about the ex sending me text messages (for now at least). Only happens at the worst of times (i.e. during a quite encouraging period of groping and kissing and stuff). I'm sure it will end soon. I'm not really answering any more. Just got home from Jessie's place and it was all kinds of awesome. We seem to connect really well. She's the woman I want, and I told her that. I also told her I never make the same mistake twice, so what happened on saturday evening won't happen again. She's adorable. And cute. And she has her own little stubborn head. I like that a lot. __________________ retired monk of Solusek Ro Dr. Klaus "Screw it i'll just stick cinnamilk up my nose."

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ToeMissile more than a feelin' Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: not Vegas Posts: 1,518 -34 Internets	"Would you mind bending over, I need to take your temperature?"? __________________ Robots?

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04-13-2009, 08:35 AM	#3871 (permalink)
Eomer You mean I can change this? Neat! Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 12,975 +66 Internets	So as far as my things go with Anne, nothing juicy to report really. We went to the hockey game on Friday, and then I dropped by her place on Sunday for a couple hours of sport fucking, and things seem to go very well. Chick seems pretty much universally awesome. She even changed her summer/winter tires on her car herself. Only problem is she refused to change mine :/.

04-13-2009, 08:48 AM	#3873 (permalink)
Dabamf Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Seoul, Korea Posts: 2,338 +15 Internets	Ronaan: Your ex didn't realize that you are "the one". She saw you possibly with another woman, when she currently has no other man, and the human fear of loss kicked in and drove her to get you to sabatage your current romantic interest. If she had discovered that instead you were at home reading war and peace instead of seeing women, I'm willing to bet large amounts of money withot even knowing either of you that she would not be begging you to get back with her. You also ARE being a vagina with the ex. Letting her see u at work and JESUS letting her convince u to call back the new girl is fuckin horrible. Not only do you let your ex make your decisions for you and ruin a possibly good thing, bit that pussy behavior is exactly what will ruin the relationship even if you get back together. That's why being a pussy is lose lose. Many guys are pussies because they don't want to lose their demanding controlling soulstealing girlfriends, but exactly what makes a guy end up with a girl like that is the same thing that makes her not respect u. That's why those types of girls are fucked in relationships. Grow a pair and decide what you want,rationally, and stick to it. If a girl continually tries to manipulate u it means you have already given in in the past. A girl won't try that shit unless she thinks it might work. Unrelated, I have been in korea for a bit over 1 month now and it took a bit but I met a very cute k girl. I had girls in the USA somewhat down and understood, but it's a whole new game here. Nothing to say right now and eventual naked pics are unlikely but try I will.

04-13-2009, 04:39 PM	#3877 (permalink)
FulorianC Real Life Apologist Join Date: May 2003 Location: Denton, Texas Posts: 2,036	Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you? Block her goddamn number.

04-13-2009, 05:07 PM	#3879 (permalink)
Eomer You mean I can change this? Neat! Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 12,975 +66 Internets	Tell her within 30 minutes of meeting her your entire life story, including about your son. Surely you will get mad poon. But seriously, what the fuck do you want, us to plan the whole date and feed you lines? For this to really work, you're going to need to rig up a live web broadcast on IRC or something. How about you take her on a date, find out if you're romantically attracted to her and don't just view her as a warm hole, and take it from there?