Threesome, need serious advice

[Gryeyes]

Originally Posted by Desidero

Is there anything that can help out in these situations or are they mostly doomed to continue that through their lives?

What you are is a choice. But i would never assume someone is going to change from what they are when you meet them. The insight required to really change yourself fundamentally is pretty rare. And you trying to "help" will queer the pitch even with the best intentions. Trying to fix someone is an emotional black hole that will suck your life juices out.

[Gryeyes]

Originally Posted by prescient63

lots of stuff

Or maybe you seek out fucked up girls?

[prescient63]

Originally Posted by Gryeyes

Or maybe you seek out fucked up girls?

Actually every one of these girls sought out me. I just let them latch on.

[Gryeyes]

Originally Posted by prescient63

Actually every one of these girls sought out me. I just let them latch on.

Ok let me rephrase. You choose to create relationships with damaged goods. Regardless of who initiates contact.

[Gryeyes]

Originally Posted by GrobbeeTrull2.0

Usually, counseling, reflection or a combination of cathartic therapies can help resolve it - but simply an interest in alternative sexual activities or promiscuity is not a sole indicator of damaged goods.

Sole indicator no. But the correlation is strong.

[prescient63]

Originally Posted by Gryeyes

Ok let me rephrase. You choose to create relationships with damaged goods. Regardless of who initiates contact.

But as mentioned before, the sex is sooooo good. Let me elaborate, how many non fucked in the head women want to be tied up and choked while having sex? Maybe I'm just not finding them if they are out there.

[Seo]

Originally Posted by prescient63

But as mentioned before, the sex is sooooo good. Let me elaborate, how many non fucked in the head women want to be tied up and choked while having sex? Maybe I'm just not finding them if they are out there.

uhh barely any. yes i know from experience and i can say that your desire to do those things also shows some problems with you.

which would be why you attract the kind of girls you do. there is books upon books of info on this type of stuff.

[prescient63]

Originally Posted by Seo

uhh barely any. yes i know from experience and i can say that your desire to do those things also shows some problems with you.

which would be why you attract the kind of girls you do. there is books upon books of info on this type of stuff.

No doubt I have issues. I'll never argue otherwise. The choking thing wasn't my idea for all those wondering.

[Gryeyes]

Originally Posted by Seo

uhh barely any. yes i know from experience and i can say that your desire to do those things also shows some problems with you.

which would be why you attract the kind of girls you do. there is books upon books of info on this type of stuff.

A little bit of bondage and some choking isnt an extreme activity:P Unless your choking bitches purple or something.

[Gryeyes]

Originally Posted by prescient63

No doubt I have issues. I'll never argue otherwise. The choking thing wasn't my idea for all those wondering.

The point is these girls arent drawn to you by psychic waves they are picking up. You select these chicks. What do all 3 of those crazy bitches have in common? YOU!

[GrobbeeTrull2.0]

Originally Posted by Gryeyes

A little bit of bondage and some choking isnt an extreme activity:P Unless your choking bitches purple or something.

Let me get this straight. It's abnormal for women to be attracted to women, men to be attracted to men, or men and women to add a third or more in to the mix.

But restraint, light bondage, choking... that's perfectly normal? Wow.

[Gryeyes]

Originally Posted by GrobbeeTrull2.0

Let me get this straight. It's abnormal for women to be attracted to women, men to be attracted to men, or men and women to add a third or more in to the mix.

But restraint, light bondage, choking... that's perfectly normal? Wow.

Please try to hold the stupid inside.

[Desidero]

Originally Posted by GrobbeeTrull2.0

but simply an interest in alternative sexual activities or promiscuity is not a sole indicator of damaged goods.

It's not just that - I know there are people that like various things, and that's fine. She has lots of problems with bad relationships. She gets into them, does the same basic things, and then breaks up. Pretty much every relationship she's had since she broke up with her HS boyfriend seems to have gone this way: Meet, sex in a very short period of time (unprotected a lot, though she always regrets that part of it too), sort of date/fuck for a short period of time, then it's over. She's not happy with it at all (or so she says?), but nothing ever changes. The interest in "alternative activities" is just another part of it. Also, she finds a shitload of older stable men very attractive which seems like a daddy thing to me. Many girls like stable men, but...

[Elerion]

Originally Posted by GrobbeeTrull2.0

Let me get this straight. It's abnormal for women to be attracted to women, men to be attracted to men, or men and women to add a third or more in to the mix.

But restraint, light bondage, choking... that's perfectly normal? Wow.

I'm pretty sure most of us would rather be tied up than suck asian cock.

[Kevincheese]

Originally Posted by kegkilla

so who let you off your leash anyway? you sound like a bad episode of 7th heaven for fuck's sake. yeah, we get it... you along with 80% of the board here think i'm an idiot, immature, etc. if that really bothered me do you think i would bother to post shit like that to begin with? half the fun in doing it is getting a rise out of all the borderline personalities.

and lol @ you throwing out life lessons. what are you... the board mom? go make me some goddamn mini pizzas.

I just wanted to say, Kegkilla, for what it's worth, I don't think you're an idiot.





I think you're a raging alcoholic.













... or maybe Doctor Hobo.