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[Dexz]

I wanted to title this post I'm so FUCKING PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW, IF I WENT TO JAIL FOR A WEEK FOR SOMETHING I DONE, IT WOULD BE WORTH IT.

Picture this, Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 years in Jan. 06
Just like most couples the past years have had good and bad parts. Last Decemeber, I took at 2 month break from the relationship and dated a few other people. Just to really put my feelings/needs/wants in perspective with what Natalie had to offer. Come Jan/Feb 05 I decided to really make a extreme effort to be with my longe term girlfriend and listen to her and put the efffort in, because she really has the qualities that are fitting to me. Ill spare you the bullshit. I moved back into our apartment and things were going well, we both had a great attittude about us/life and the road ahead.

Then comes the fucked up month of May, she had gotten into my email account and proceeded to read past emails from the women I dated/fucked while i was living in a diffrent place, no seeing her on any regular basis and was told beforehand. Im taking a fucking break from this.

Thats right, the bitch broke my trust and then the typical bullshit ensued, first I was really pissed at the fact, then trying to be the mature person I am tried to explain the situation. Then when all that failed I just took the stand of No, that I didnt cheat on you, we were not fucking together, but knowing how much this hurt you. I am sorry for that and never had this intention. She brought this up at every goddamn opportunity known to man, at home, during sex, while out with my friends. Drilling my friends for info, blaming them for being involved etc etc etc.

Needless to say, our four legged relationship just had three legs chooped off to stoke the fire to blazing levels of hatred, resentment and lost of trust on both parts. I felt that she should have never know about the past, It wasnt in my mind cheating, in hers it was. Welcome to the emotional stand off of the century.

I loved her and at that time would do anything to get the old us back and moving forward. So instead of just tossing my hands up after 4 years. I swallowed my pride and did what ever I could to assure her that It would never happen again.

Jun and Jul rolled by and we were so so, Then she has to take a business trip to Denver for a week. The circumstance were questionable but I had to roll with it. Two days into the trip of rare phone calls, which is unlike her and other things I get suppicous and start asking questions. She trips up and I thenk now shes up to no good, and suddenly remember in my fit of anger her ex lives up there. She comes home and at dinner outright tells me she went up there to see him. I left the bitch at chili's with no ride home. She comes home about an hour later with the fuck you, you fucked me attitude and that angerred me past the point of concious control. She hits me, I grab her and sit her down in the chair. Well she was fighting with me, trying to slap me again. Needless to say I left bruises on both arms, and had a gashing wound on my arm from her nails. She blabbed some shit about me being abussive blah blah blah. I got up, started packing my shit to leave for good. Mistake number one, I let her talk me out of it. I stayed, Like a complete fucking moron. Love is blind and dumb

Jun and Jul pass and not much is going on, no real light of anything getting better, but I just thought of it as a healing phase and we would get back into our beat sooner than later.

Sept and Oct come and shes going out and not calling, coming home and really giving off this I dont give a fuck attitude. This was 180 degree turn from who is was, she never in 4 years did this. Naturaly I think the bitch is cheating, pack my shit to leave and she promises to knock it off and get her shit together. Mistake number fucking 2

November she wants time off and moves over to her moms, Im thinking ok wtf, Ill give her this and if shit doesnt get better then fuck it. Im done. She comes back after 4 fucking days, not a week or a month 4 fucking days. And has the attitude and persona that I fell in love with years ago. A day later her grandmother Dies, so i take off work and drive her 400 miles there and back for the funeral. Things are great, she seems very happy that Im supportive at this time and Im excited shes got her shit together.

Thanksgiving comes and we have the best start to a holiday, Ive ever had in my life it was almost perfect and I get to enjoy it with the love of my life. We put up the tree, decorate the outside, get up the next morning and go shopping etc. It was good on both sides, with her parents and mine.

No signs of trouble, it really was going better that I ever thought.

December 8th. I feel so good about this, I go and buy a ring well over 1k as a x-mas gift for her. To show that I love her and am thankful for her effort in this relationship.

Decemeber 9th, we go out dancing with my parents for a bit and shes going to a friends house to spend the night. I kiss her goodbye and she tells me she will call later. Well, no call, so i call her and no answer. Ahh shes just busy yacking, Ill give her a bit to call me back, no call, no answer. Well im no fucking rocket scientist. I know shes up to no good. I drive an hour to the friends house, by this time its 3am and shes not there. No bars in a town of 3k. I call again no answer. Im beyond fucking mad at this point.

Next morning around 11am she calls at work and with the chipper voice, "something wrong " and I procede in the next 30 seconds to trap her in about 4 lies on what happened the night before. She went and spent the night with Matt, he was in town.......

Have fun with it.... What would you do..... and according to her, I have anger issues so It shouldnt be a problem

[Hooby]

Throw the bitch down some stairs.

[wamphyr]

"She went and spent the night with Matt, he was in town...."

The first reply that came into my mind is so dumb but so funny :
" Wtf your gf cheated on you with Matt the Gimp ? from this forum ? "

Sorry.

[Fammaden]

Forget her, she did that same shit to me.

[Angry Amadeus]

Step 1: Get Hatorade on the line.

Step 2: Realize that for the past four or five years, you've been a walking slit of a man, and it's time to grow a pair.

Step 3: Erase her from your life.

Move on.

[Tuco]

If I were you, I'd just not see her for say, a year.

Then I'd start dating her again, if she wants to and isn't crazy.

She's almost testing you to see what you'll put up with, you should just ditch her, and give her a definate time-frame and do NOT let her talk you out of it. Just don't contact her for a year, and don't let her see you either. Tell her to have fun with Matt, you'll be back in a year etc.

IF she's still crazy, don't look back.

[Zurren]

end it. Even if you were on a break from the relationship - in her mind, you still cheated on her. From what it sounds like, she will NEVER forgive you for this, and in turn - she has started to cheat on you, and thinks that you deserve it for the pain that you caused her.

From the sounds of her actions - I doubt she'll stop cheating any time soon, and you'll just continue to play this game back and forth. IMO - you did not cheat on her, you were on a break. However, she IS cheating on you, and cheating is cheating.

Maybe this is because I'm used to open relationships, and I'm open to the idea of open relationships. I'd be

1st time - suggest moving to an open relationship
If they said no, and cheated a 2nd time - then I'd end it.

Cheating and breaking another persons trust like that sucks - I do think that people can just 'make the mistake once', and not cheat again after that first mistake. But, if the pattern starts to form and become a normal thing, - fuck that shit.

Either be open/honest about fucking around and start an open relationship (which comes with a whole host of rules, and its still possible to 'cheat' when in an open relationship, so dont go breaking the fucken rules), or - end that shit and move on.

[Crystara]

Definately time to end it, why would you put up with that shit after the first incident?

[Hateyou]

I would post nudes on these exact forums. Full frontal, sexual, beastialiy, you name it I'd post it. Heed my words friend, I wouldn't lead you astray.

[Hikaru]

Ok if you want to be walked on all your life stay with her. go ahead. If you want to actually prove to yourself that you in fact have a pair of balls, leave her ass at chilis for good.

[Shogon]

pics

[Shogon]

Originally Posted by Dexz

Have fun with it.... What would you do..... and according to her, I have anger issues so It shouldnt be a problem

This was my favorite part of the post because people always counter attack (even when it's complete and utter BULLSHIT) when they know they've done something wrong and feel guilty about it.

[Taehoon]

Get AIDS, make up with her, then give her AIDS. And call her fat.

[RiskyChris]

Sounds like some crap I went through. Push her down a few flights of stairs.

[Bizantium]

Originally Posted by Dexz

Next morning around 11am she calls at work and with the chipper voice, "something wrong " and I procede in the next 30 seconds to trap her in about 4 lies on what happened the night before. She went and spent the night with Matt, he was in town.......

Well, theres not really much to say...

Allow me to be the first to state the obvious. This Matt guy obviously is a better playa than you, and your girlfriend plays shit off really damn well.

You should've kept that bitch on lock. You didnt...


Solutions...
-Fuck her bestfriend or her mother ( id fuck her mom )
-Find this Matt and beat....that....ass
-Forget about her and move on
-Kill her and Matt ( wouldnt recommend it )
-Kill yourself ( if previous solutions fail )