Daddy Issues and other damaged goods - Page 2

Incognitogamer · 07-07-2008, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Mkopec1

What you have to ask yourself is what is your bullshit tolerance and how much you can handle. And then gage your relationships around that threshold.

Unfortunately, if I were to base getting into a relationship with a girl on the amount of bullshit I would have to deal with - I'd never be in a relationship.

It's... sad, really, how crazy women can be and still think they're being sane. A sad state of affairs indeed.

Zitar · 07-07-2008, 10:56 PM

Wait a second, there are women that aren't damaged goods? Other than virgin quakers they are all damaged to some degree. I tend to only date fucked up women. The key to know before hand is that YOU CAN'T FIX THEM. Don't even try just have fun until the relationship explodes and it will explode. Also if there is any rape/molestation get the fuck out of there. Bad childhood or father abandonment is ok.

If you want a serious relationship then don't waste your time, but if it's fun you are after then take the crazy bitch.

FulorianC · 07-08-2008, 12:09 AM

This thread needs more stories and specific examples.

SalaciousTunare · 07-08-2008, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Mkopec1

What you have to ask yourself is what is your bullshit tolerance and how much you can handle. And then gage your relationships around that threshold.

THIS

How else do you explain shit like, divorcing Nicole Kidman, cheating on Liz Hurley, etc. The old quote was something like... "Take a look at any hot girl, somewhere out there, there's a guy who's tired of fucking her."

Burf · 07-08-2008, 02:53 AM

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Originally Posted by SalaciousTunare

The old quote was something like... "Take a look at any hot girl, somewhere out there, there's a guy who's tired of fucking her."

The variation on that is, "...somewhere out there, there's a guy who's tired of dealing with her shit."

Chips · 07-08-2008, 05:23 AM

I had an ex girlfriend break into my apartment on Valentines Day while I was at work and clean up the place and leave roses and candy everywhere. Was pretty awesome because my apartment was a mess.

I took her to subway and bought her dinner to show my appreciation.

Etoille · 07-08-2008, 05:49 AM

I have to ask this Fulorian - who's more crazy?

The girl or the guy who dates her?

Two way street guys. But by all means let this little oprah fest continue!

OhSeven · 07-08-2008, 06:22 AM

As I said in the other thread, I LOVE damaged goods. The more fucked up the better. Honestly though, I don't know why really it just gets me going to know that they are fucked up worse than a football bat.

So I guess to answer Etoille's question, in my case at least, I am the more fucked up one.

Etoille · 07-08-2008, 07:09 AM

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Originally Posted by OhSeven

As I said in the other thread, I LOVE damaged goods. The more fucked up the better. Honestly though, I don't know why really it just gets me going to know that they are fucked up worse than a football bat.

So I guess to answer Etoille's question, in my case at least, I am the more fucked up one.

hey youre one of the most honest ones here at least you admit that youre part of the problem instead of crying about how its always the other persons fault. (not that hearing stories of past experiences isnt fun - its funnier to me that on this and other threads theres this big cry fest about how women are all crazy whores. but not everyone on this thread or others has said that - just a lot of ppl).

a lot of the rest of em on this thread and others sound like a bunch of damn girls. "why are all men jerks? why does he yell at me like his dad yells at his mom? why does he cheat on me? why does he hit me?"

because you are DATING THEM. you are PART of the problem because you pursue a relationship with these people. the problem isnt just them its also YOU. (this all ties back into my pet peeve about lack of personal responsibility. things dont happen to you most of the time - you let them happen to you or in some cases are a willing participant in the action).

(ohseven the last parts there weren't aimed at you was rhetorically speaking).

not all men are jerks, not all women are crazy. and if youre dating a jerk or dating a crazy then its probably not just them that has the problem, especially if you "only date jerks" or "always seem to find the crazy ones".

kegkilla · 07-08-2008, 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Etoille

hey youre one of the most honest ones here at least you admit that youre part of the problem instead of crying about how its always the other persons fault. (not that hearing stories of past experiences isnt fun - its funnier to me that on this and other threads theres this big cry fest about how women are all crazy whores. but not everyone on this thread or others has said that - just a lot of ppl).

a lot of the rest of em on this thread and others sound like a bunch of damn girls. "why are all men jerks? why does he yell at me like his dad yells at his mom? why does he cheat on me? why does he hit me?"

because you are DATING THEM. you are PART of the problem because you pursue a relationship with these people. the problem isnt just them its also YOU. (this all ties back into my pet peeve about lack of personal responsibility. things dont happen to you most of the time - you let them happen to you or in some cases are a willing participant in the action).

(ohseven the last parts there weren't aimed at you was rhetorically speaking).

not all men are jerks, not all women are crazy. and if youre dating a jerk or dating a crazy then its probably not just them that has the problem, especially if you "only date jerks" or "always seem to find the crazy ones".

who the fuck is crying? its a thread about dating women who have issues and people are sharing their advice and experiences for fuck's sake. probably 95% of people go into the relationship without knowledge of how screwed up the other party really is, and by the time it shows they've invested a lot into the relationship.

apparently the only "daddy issues" you are familiar with is your daddy not knowing how to shut your mouth when you have nothing to offer the conversation yet still try to be the center of attention, and not knowing when to put your fat ass on a diet. get the fuck out with your pretentious, "fat bitch can't be wrong" attitude and stop acting like you're an expert on anything other than the merits of using cheez whiz to spice up your sex life.

Etoille · 07-08-2008, 08:38 AM

oh give me a break keg. most of this entire thread is:

"nice guys finish last" combined with "haha showed them ill be a jerk with all the control".

please. the sad part is that on the bottom of page 1 you actually try to rationalize the behavior.

name call all you want. its how you think "you win". doesnt keep me up at nights, nor does it change the fact that its pretty obvious you and others are bitter and if a woman was doing the same thing youd call her a shrill frigid bitch lol.

Lusiphur · 07-08-2008, 08:54 AM

Is Keg going for so much -internetz that the internet itself will fall into the black hole created by his profile ? Enquiring minds wish to know.

I dated a "chica" like this once. Long story short (the high points)

* She claimed daddy did "bad" things but only after another friend of hers did. I firmly believe she just didn't want someone to get one up on her. I met her old man, seemed fine to me.
* She was turning tricks in our place while I was at work
* She would cut herself
* She would wake me up in the middle of the night claiming she was going to sell herself into white slavery or some such shit.

At the end of the day I let it run on far too long but you DO get addicted to the emotional rollercoaster and it can be hard to get off.

I suppose if you think you can get in, get your jollies and get out without too much damage then enjoy. I bet its not as easy as that however

OhSeven · 07-08-2008, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Lusiphur

Stuff

You still got her number?

Hatorade · 07-08-2008, 10:32 AM

I knew this one girl that had a great home life and all that. Well I more then knew her we were best friends in Highschool and still talk couple times a week. Anyways in HS she lied about everything and anything. Who she dated how many guys she was with etc etc. It was nothing that could ever be proven/disproven, she would go into detail about the sex she had. She made up her entire life pretty much.

Found out she was still a virgin and she lied about her life so people would love her. Pretty fucked up complex, I wanted to fuck her so I was blind to most of the shit she told me. Now she is married to a fat bastard that treats her like shit and having an affair with some guy she works with.

FulorianC · 07-08-2008, 10:45 AM

Keg, Etoille, unless you have stories about headcases (I welcome stories about insane boyfriends too, this isn't a misogynistic thing) I'd love to not have you two ruin another thread with pointless quarreling. How about some examples instead of bickering?

07-08-2008, 12:09 AM	#18 (permalink)
FulorianC EQ1 Apologist Join Date: May 2003 Location: Denton, Texas Posts: 1,450	This thread needs more stories and specific examples. __________________

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Chips Registered User Join Date: May 2002 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 679 -46 Internets	I had an ex girlfriend break into my apartment on Valentines Day while I was at work and clean up the place and leave roses and candy everywhere. Was pretty awesome because my apartment was a mess. I took her to subway and bought her dinner to show my appreciation. __________________ “White folks was in caves while we was building empires ... We taught philosophy and astrology and mathematics before Socrates and them Greek homos ever got around to it.” -Rev. Al Sharpton

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Hatorade Cause its better then water. Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 6,627 +21 Internets	I knew this one girl that had a great home life and all that. Well I more then knew her we were best friends in Highschool and still talk couple times a week. Anyways in HS she lied about everything and anything. Who she dated how many guys she was with etc etc. It was nothing that could ever be proven/disproven, she would go into detail about the sex she had. She made up her entire life pretty much. Found out she was still a virgin and she lied about her life so people would love her. Pretty fucked up complex, I wanted to fuck her so I was blind to most of the shit she told me. Now she is married to a fat bastard that treats her like shit and having an affair with some guy she works with. __________________ www.houseforsaken.com reopened recruitment.

07-08-2008, 10:45 AM	#30 (permalink)
FulorianC EQ1 Apologist Join Date: May 2003 Location: Denton, Texas Posts: 1,450	Keg, Etoille, unless you have stories about headcases (I welcome stories about insane boyfriends too, this isn't a misogynistic thing) I'd love to not have you two ruin another thread with pointless quarreling. How about some examples instead of bickering? __________________

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07-07-2008, 10:56 PM	#17 (permalink)
Zitar Registered User Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 215 +2 Internets	Wait a second, there are women that aren't damaged goods? Other than virgin quakers they are all damaged to some degree. I tend to only date fucked up women. The key to know before hand is that YOU CAN'T FIX THEM. Don't even try just have fun until the relationship explodes and it will explode. Also if there is any rape/molestation get the fuck out of there. Bad childhood or father abandonment is ok. If you want a serious relationship then don't waste your time, but if it's fun you are after then take the crazy bitch.

07-08-2008, 05:49 AM	#22 (permalink)
Etoille Tuco's Furry Convention Costume is Sparty Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 2,527	I have to ask this Fulorian - who's more crazy? The girl or the guy who dates her? Two way street guys. But by all means let this little oprah fest continue!

07-08-2008, 06:22 AM	#23 (permalink)
OhSeven Banned Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Giving terrorist fist bumps Posts: 413 +17 Internets	As I said in the other thread, I LOVE damaged goods. The more fucked up the better. Honestly though, I don't know why really it just gets me going to know that they are fucked up worse than a football bat. So I guess to answer Etoille's question, in my case at least, I am the more fucked up one.

07-08-2008, 08:38 AM	#26 (permalink)
Etoille Tuco's Furry Convention Costume is Sparty Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 2,527	oh give me a break keg. most of this entire thread is: "nice guys finish last" combined with "haha showed them ill be a jerk with all the control". please. the sad part is that on the bottom of page 1 you actually try to rationalize the behavior. name call all you want. its how you think "you win". doesnt keep me up at nights, nor does it change the fact that its pretty obvious you and others are bitter and if a woman was doing the same thing youd call her a shrill frigid bitch lol.

07-08-2008, 08:54 AM	#27 (permalink)
Lusiphur Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Bonny Scotland Posts: 364 -3 Internets	Is Keg going for so much -internetz that the internet itself will fall into the black hole created by his profile ? Enquiring minds wish to know. I dated a "chica" like this once. Long story short (the high points) * She claimed daddy did "bad" things but only after another friend of hers did. I firmly believe she just didn't want someone to get one up on her. I met her old man, seemed fine to me. * She was turning tricks in our place while I was at work * She would cut herself * She would wake me up in the middle of the night claiming she was going to sell herself into white slavery or some such shit. At the end of the day I let it run on far too long but you DO get addicted to the emotional rollercoaster and it can be hard to get off. I suppose if you think you can get in, get your jollies and get out without too much damage then enjoy. I bet its not as easy as that however