| end it. Even if you were on a break from the relationship - in her mind, you still cheated on her. From what it sounds like, she will NEVER forgive you for this, and in turn - she has started to cheat on you, and thinks that you deserve it for the pain that you caused her.
From the sounds of her actions - I doubt she'll stop cheating any time soon, and you'll just continue to play this game back and forth. IMO - you did not cheat on her, you were on a break. However, she IS cheating on you, and cheating is cheating.
Maybe this is because I'm used to open relationships, and I'm open to the idea of open relationships. I'd be
1st time - suggest moving to an open relationship
If they said no, and cheated a 2nd time - then I'd end it.
Cheating and breaking another persons trust like that sucks - I do think that people can just 'make the mistake once', and not cheat again after that first mistake. But, if the pattern starts to form and become a normal thing, - fuck that shit.
Either be open/honest about fucking around and start an open relationship (which comes with a whole host of rules, and its still possible to 'cheat' when in an open relationship, so dont go breaking the fucken rules), or - end that shit and move on. | 