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Originally Posted by A2T  The whole point of the article is that she's not playing anyone, she's just being herself? Sounds like the guy played himself by basing expectations on an inaccurate analysis of their relationship. Anyway, don't you think it sucks just as much for the girl to watch her friend torn up because she can't feel anything in return, and then probably lose that friendship? Not to mention the awkwardness ... Or hell, just the disappointment of yet another guy turning out to be lame. Experience that enough times, and I can see how she might become callous towards guys who too easily get attached and clingy. |
Yeah, you're actually pretty dead on with how she probably feels when you put it that way. Maybe I'm just bitter and sympathetic because I know what it feels like to be the guy who felt strung along when it was just a bad reading on her feelings the entire time.
It sucks because she's a really cool girl, but I wanted to be something more than a friend just because she's the first person to really connect to me the way she did. I don't really want that anymore now that I've come to realize that she has this effect on a lot of people, and odds are her feelings will never change and meet the ones I used to have. I know she tried to change them but somethings don't always work out I guess.
