| If things were as bad as you claim in previous years, I'm certain neither of you have much in the way of self-esteem. Starting new things is almost paralyzing at that point and it takes a while to recover from that. Sounds like she's aware she's at a juncture. Let it go. It's not your responsibility to fill up the "boredom" void with social networking, hobbies, and whatnot; it's hers. Your attempts to do so are probably just confusing her and making it worse. The best you can do is reaffirm that things are getting better and be there for her. | 