| There are a few ways you can go with this...
-Leave now, and all is done.
-Help and be prepared for a long-ass, emotionally draining relationship that may or may not help her as an end result.
-Participate in what will likely be an abusive relationship where you use eachother mercilessly.
The first option is the easiest and ultimately probably the best. The second option is good if you can see it working out but will cause the most drama in your life. The third option is the most fun(crazy ass relationships are awesome for short periods of time) and will give you stories, but ultimately will leave a sour taste in your mouth and leave you that much more jaded.
Basically all of my girlfriends have had traumatizing pasts. They're still people, and still normal people who care and deserve to be cared about, they simply have eccentricities that others lack which makes them more interesting. Personally, that's my favorite type of girl to date.
To those wondering, if I get serious with one of these girls, I do try to help them through their problems. I listen to their confessions and share their secrets, then give them the support they need. The great thing about that is that if a girl does this type of thing with you, your relationship will be far more close than a regular relationship. The downside is that once this happens, you're in an EXTREMELY co-dependent relationship. She will be at a point that she can't consider being without you. Think of it as a heroin addict who loses their sponsor. Enter these relationships only after considering these consequences.
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"You underestimate the satisfaction I will get from your suffering" -Teal'c
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